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101 London Date Ideas

101 London Date Ideas | Quirky Things To Do For Date Night

Chances are high that you’re either in a relationship, or single.

And whichever it is, well, you’re going to need date ideas.

And that’s where we come in, because while yes the whole of The Nudge is filled with amazing London date ideas, with hidden spots and romantic nooks for you to explore, we’ve also just updated this: our humble collection of 101 London Date Ideas which will help you to A) Secure the lifelong devotion of whomever it is you’re trying to impress, and B) Have fun discovering the very best of London while doing so.

We’d call that a win-win.

 


1. CATCH A SHOW AT WILTON’S
Wapping | ££

Then go for post-show drinks at the 300-year old Mahogany Bar.

2. BREAK CODES FOR COCKTAILS AT THE BLETCHLEY
Chelsea | £££

The Bletchley

And give each other codenames for the evening.

3. WATCH FILMS ON THE ORIGINAL 16mm REELS
Hackney | ££

At Ciné Real’s incredibly special screening nights. 

4. DRINK IN AN ABSINTHE AFTERNOON TEA AT NIGHTJAR CARNABY
Soho | ££

Absinthe Afternoon Tea

Absinthe fountains, cocktails, Champagne, live entertainment, and of course, finger sandwiches. Book here

PS. Nudge Members can get £5 off using the code NUDGE40 at checkout.

5. DINE WITH LIVE MUSIC AT BRASSERIE ZEDEL
Piccadilly Circus | ££

Then sip cocktails in their authentic 1930s bar 

6. STOCK A PICNIC BASKET AT ONE OF LONDON’S BEST FOOD MARKETS
All Over London | ££

Borough Market

Then take it to one of the many lovely parks in London.

7. GET STEAMY IN THE CONSERVATORIES AT KEW GARDENS
Kew | ££

kew gardens

Max Letek

And take a stroll along the treetop walkway.

8. STEP BACK INTO JAZZ AGE MANHATTAN
Earl’s Court | £££

With live music, a banquet, and prohibition-era cocktails at the residence of Ms. Belle Livingstone.

9. HIT UP A RESTAURANT WITH A VIEW
Across London | £££

romantic restaurants with a view

With a view to impressing your date. 

10. PLAY BOULES & DRINK COCKTAILS AT JACK & BOULE
Southbank | ££ | Parter Content

Politely invite your partner to do the tossing.

11. HURL SOME AXES AT A WALL AT SKEETERS
Hackney Wick | £££

Skeeters, Hackney Wick

 Then toast the winner at Barge East, just an axe’s throw away.

12. TAKE ROMANCE TO NEW HEIGHTS AT LIFT 109
Battersea | ££

By ascending the chimneys of Battersea Power Station.

13. WHISK YOUR DATE OFF ON A NUDGE ITINERARY
Across London | £

Our growing collection of neighbourhood strolls, with suggestions of where to eat, where to drink and what to see…

14. MAKE CANDLES TOGETHER AT EARL OF EAST
London Fields/King’s Cross | £££

Candle workshop at Earl of East

Though obviously, nobody holds a candle to your date… 

15. LISTEN TO SOME LITERALLY LIFE-CHANGING MUSIC
Wapping | ££

One Track Minds

At One Track Minds, a mash-up of TED Talks and Desert Island Discs…

16. PRESS FOR CHAMPAGNE AT BOB BOB RICARD
Soho | ££££

Champagne at Bob Bob Ricard

Trust us, it’s glorious.

17. CHECK OUT ONE OF LONDON’S NEWEST RESTAURANTS AND BARS
Across London | ££

JOIA

Or plan ahead, with our guide to restaurants opening soon.

18. SPEND A DAY EXPLORING SPITALFIELDS MARKET
Spitalfields | £

Records at Spitalfields Market

Compete to see who can find the most hilariously old-school record cover.

19. THEN MOSEY DOWN BRICK LANE
Brick Lane | £

Dark Sugars Brick Lane

Mooch round the vintage stores, go bowling, feast on Indian food and get the city’s best hot chocolate at Dark Sugars.

20. BOOK IN FOR AFTERNOON TEA
Across London | ££-££££

Wolseley afternoon tea London

These places somehow make egg and cress an aphrodisiac.

21. TAKE A CANDLELIT WINE BATH TOGETHER
Strand | £££££

Aire Ancient Baths

It’s how you’ll be living out your retirement years, so test the waters (so to speak) now. 

22. TAKE A POTTERY CLASS
Across London

Teachers looove it when you do the ‘Ghost’ thing.

23. GET YOUR PRESCRIPTION AT THE MIDNIGHT APOTHECARY
Rotherhithe | £

The Midnight Apothecary

Namely: a candlelit garden with firepits, unlimited marshmallows for toasting, and botanical cocktails.

24. TOUR LONDON’S UNUSUAL MUSEUMS
Across London | £

Last Tuesday Society Viktor Wynd Museum

First to find UCL’s famous Jar of Moles wins.

25. BRAVE A TAXIDERMY CLASS
Hackney | ££££

unusual date ideas

And give each other crabs! 

26. SPARK OLD-SCHOOL ROMANCE AT A JAZZ BAR
Across London | £

Ronnie Scott's Jazz Bar London

It’s hard to beat.

27. TAKE IN AN EXHIBITION
Across London | ££

exhibition date ideas

All the Flowers Are for Me – Anila Quayyum Agha © RBG Kew

Milk! Portraits of dogs! An interrogation of the complex cultural interchange between the media of photography and painting!
^

28. ENTRUST THE BARTENDER WITH AN OMAKASE COCKTAIL EXPERIENCE
Knightsbridge | ££££

The Aubrey Omakase

And leave with a bottle of your favourite to take… somewhere else.

29. PLAY GUESS WHO IN THE NATIONAL PORTRAIT GALLERY
Charing Cross | Free

national portrait gallery

David Parry

No, they’re not wearing a hat.

30. MAKE YOUR OWN BESPOKE PERFUMES
Covent Garden | £££££

Now you’re making scents.

31. GET ON YER BIKES, AND GO ON A MONUMENT CRAWL
Around London | £

view from the monument

Mike Peel

A proper London date. We recommend including the Monument itself, the view up there is amazing.

32. GO CRAZY GOLFING IN THE GREAT OUTDOORS
Across London | £

Or, you know, Barnet.

33. GET LOST IN THE BARBICAN CONSERVATORY
Barbican | Free (but book ahead)

Barbican Conservatory

A pop up bar, terrapins, and 1,500+ species of plants…

34. TAKE THE PLUNGE WITH A REFRESHING OUTDOOR SWIM
Across London | £

beckenham outdoor swimming london

Just spend five months or so learning not to scream when you get in, first.

35. TAKE A STROLL ALONG THE SOUTH BANK
South Bank | £

summer date ideas london

Grab a bite at the Southbank Centre’s food market, take in an exhibition at the Hayward, watch a show at the National, then hole up in Lyaness for a nightcap.

36. PLAY THE MOST ROMANTIC ROUND OF CRAZY GOLF EVER AT SWINGERS
Oxford Circus/The City | ££

Swingers London golf

Remember: in golf, being sub-par is a good thing

37. RENT A HOT TUG
Canary Wharf | ££££

hot tug boats london

It’s literally a hot tub. That’s also a boat. 

38. SIP DRINKS ON A ROOFTOP OVERLOOKING THE CITY
Across London | ££

seabird rooftop

We have some suggestions here..

39. PLAY A FEW ROUNDS OF DARTS AT FLIGHT CLUB
Finsbury Square/Bloomsbury/Victoria/Islington | ££

flight club date ideas

Use the board to determine what you drink.

40. SEE SOMETHING AMAZING AT THE THEATRE
Across London | ££

Remember this? It’s like Netflix, but 3D. 

41. TRY FRESH VEG-TURNED-FINE DINING AT TURNIPS
Borough | £££

turnips quirky date spot

Ex-City Social chef Tomas Lidakevicius is plucking ingredients right from Borough Market and whipping them into tasting menus on the spot.

42. DO EVERYTHING AT THE HORNIMAN MUSEUM
Forest Hill | £

Horniman unusual date ideas

They’ve got a butterfly house, a farmers’ market, an outdoor musical garden, a pygmy goat enclosure, an aquarium, a functioning bandstand, a Dutch barn, 16 acres of gardens… and a giant overstuffed walrus.

43. LEARN TO SWING DANCE AT THE RIVOLI BALLROOM
Brockley | £

rivoli ballroom romantic date spot

With live music and totally authentic 1950s surroundings.

44. TACKLE THE BERMONDSEY BEER MILE
Bermondsey | ££

bermondsey beer mile

For some pint-sized fun.

45. THEN STROLL THROUGH MALTBY STREET MARKET BY NIGHT
Bermondsey | £

Maltby Street

Create your own banquet with a course from each stall…

46. EXPLORE ABANDONED TUBE TUNNELS BELOW GROUND
Across London | ££££

hidden london abandoned tube tunnel

Don’t let your date say you never take them anywhere nice.

47. LISTEN TO LIVE MUSIC IN A CHURCH CRYPT
Charing Cross | ££

quirky date ideas

It’s surprisingly lively down there…

48. NERD OUT AT FOUR QUARTERS
Peckham | ££

Four Quarters

Show off your video game skills at Four Quarters. Loser buys a round of craft beers. 

49. GO TO AN UNUSUAL RESTAURANT
Across London | ££

unusual restaurants london

For when you feel like wildebeest tonight, like wildebeest tonight.

50. WATCH A FILM SOMEWHERE BEAUTIFUL
Across London | ££

date cinema london

Cocktails, blankets and cinema beds. 

51. TAKE A COCKTAIL MASTERCLASS
Across London | £££

Best Cocktail-Making Classes in London: Sauce by The Langham

When you feel like shaking things up.

52. TAKE A BOAT TRIP TO GREENWICH
Greenwich | ££

Fas Khan

And drink like sailors at one of Greenwich’s best pubs.

53. THEN CLIMB THE O2 BY TWILIGHT, DRINK CHAMPAGNE AT THE TOP
Greenwich | £££

unusual date ideas london

It’s a long climb. Perfect for checking out, or improving, your date’s stamina. 

54. INVITE YOUR DATE TO PLAY SQUID GAME AT IMMERSIVE GAMEBOX
Southwark | £

Squid Game 3

It’s probably not exactly like the show. Probably.

55. GO TO THE THURSDAY LATE AT NOVELTY AUTOMATION
Holborn | £

Novelty Automation

Play a friendly game of Divorce, then make up over a glass of wine.

56. WATCH COMEDY IN A HISTORIC CHURCH
Highbury | ££

Union Chapel

They’ll have you rolling in the aisles.

57. DRINK COCKTAILS AT NIGHTJAR
Old Street | ££

Nightjar london date bars

They have 100 year-old Pimm’s. 

58. BLOW YOUR MINDS AT AN OPTICAL ILLUSIONS MUSEUM
Oxford Circus | £££

Twist Museum

Dan Weill Photography

It should put a spin on your typical date in London…

59. TAKE YOUR DATE TO THE FAIRGROUND
Canary Wharf | ££

fairgame canary wharf

The kind with adrenaline-fuelled mini-games, street food, and boozy candy floss.

60. GIVE CUPID A RUN FOR HIS MONEY
The City & Canary Wharf | ££

Clays Canary Wharf

Practise your aim with virtual clay pigeon shooting at Clays.

61. TAKE THE BOAT FROM TATE BRITAIN TO THE TATE MODERN
Bankside | £

Tate Modern

Then talk about the signs, doors, and chairs as if they were exhibits. 

62. TAKE A STROLL ON HAMPSTEAD HEATH
Hampstead | Free

hampstead heath london date spots

Take in the Pergola, Kenwood House, and a pub. Or two. 

63. SCALE THE WALLS OF A STOKE NEWINGTON CASTLE
Stoke Newington | £

Because it actually houses a rock climbing centre.

64. DRESS UP ’40s STYLE AND GO TO CAHOOTS
Soho | £££

Cahoots date ideas

Order one of their ‘Dig for Victory’ vegetable cocktails.

65. SPEND AN ENTIRE DAY IN VICTORIA PARK
Hackney | £

Start with a Sri Lankan breakfast at Pavilion, take a boat across the lake, peruse the Sunday market and finish with a little light roller blading.

66. KAYAK YOUR WAY TO CRATE BREWERY
Hackney | ££

kayak to CRATE Brewery

And quench your thirst when you get there. 

67. GO BOWLING AT ALL STAR LANES
Holborn / Westfield / Brick Lane | ££

All Star Lanes fun date ideas

And see who can come up with the most puns about balls, pins, and splits. 

68. HIT UP ONE OF LONDON’S MOST ROMANTIC RESTAURANTS
All Over London | ££

Sucre

Carol Sachs

Some beautiful London date spots, with a little candlelight, a little live music, a little love in the air (which here, smells a lot like steak).

69. EAT CHEESE TOGETHER. ON A BARGE.
Paddington | ££

The Cheese Barge, Paddington

The key to anyone’s heart. Except the lactose intolerant.

70. STROLL THE GLASS WALKWAY ABOVE TOWER BRIDGE
Tower Bridge | ££

Then look back on it over dinner at Tavolino.

71. VISIT THE HUNTERIAN MUSEUM
Holborn | Free

And see who gets grossed out first.

72. HIT THE OLYMPIC PING PONG TABLE AT BOUNCE
Farringdon / Shoreditch/Battersea | ££

Bounce active date ideas

Invent victory dances. 

73. SIP ABSINTHE AT THE LAST TUESDAY SOCIETY
Hackney | £

Last Tuesday Society

Then descend into Viktor Wynd’s cabinet of curiosities below…

74. ATTEND A CONCERT IN A SUBTERRANEAN, VICTORIAN CAVERN
Rotherhithe | ££

debut unusual date ideas

They say Brunel was building a tunnel… but really, he was creating a Grade A date spot.

75. GET YOUR SKATES ON AT FLIPPER’S ROLLER BOOGIE PALACE
Shepherd’s Bush | ££

Flippers Boogie Palace

It’s the revival of an iconic LA roller disco. Backed by Usher.

76. BUILD-A-BOUQUET AT THE COLUMBIA ROAD FLOWER MARKET
Bethnal Green | ££

Columbia Road Flower Market

And no, a single rose doesn’t count.

77. ORDER THE DUCK AND WAFFLE AT DUCK AND WAFFLE
Bishopsgate | £££

duck & waffle date

Best order it at 4am. Just because you can. 

78. BROWSE THE STALLS AT LONDON’S FLEA MARKETS

Buy each other an obnoxious piece of bric-a-brac, and insist they display it in pride of place at home.

79. TOP UP A TAB CARD AT VAGABOND WINES, DRINK DOZENS OF SAMPLES.
Various Locations | ££

cool date ideas london

Then buy a bottle of your favourite for your next date.

80. WATCH UN FILM ROMANTIQUE AT THE INSTITUT FRANÇAIS
South Kensington | £

Cine Lumiere date ideas

That’s French for ‘a romantic film’… 

81. SMUGGLE BOOZE ONTO THE LONDON EYE
Westminster | £££

London eye date

These guys totally managed it. 

82. PLAY BOARDGAMES TOGETHER AT DRAUGHTS
Dalston/Waterloo | ££

Draughts date ideas

Do NOT play Monopoly if you want there to be a second date. 

83. TRY NOT TO PROPOSE AT CLOS MAGGIORE
Covent Garden | £££

romantic spots london

It’s craaaazy romantic there. If you book a table in the right room (this one)

84. TAKE A CANDLELIT TOUR ROUND SIR JOHN SOANE’S HOUSE
Holborn | £££ (Free by day)

sir john soane's house quirky date ideas

Feat. salvaged architecture, an imaginary monk, and moving walls… 

85. WANDER ACROSS ACRES OF URBAN WETLANDS
Walthamstow | Free

Then hole up in Tottenham’s tiniest pub.

86. SEE WHO CAN HAGGLE THE BEST DEAL AT PORTOBELLO MARKET
Notting Hill | ££

Portobello road london date spots

Paul Hudson/Flickr

The most quintessential of London dates. 

87. HIRE A PEDALO AT ALLY PALLY
Alexandra Palace | £

Alexandra Palace Lake

Then grab a drink on their panoramic beer terrace.

88. HAVE A SHUFFLEBOARD CONTEST
Shoreditch | ££

fun dates london

Then toast your victory with cocktails at Seed Library.

89. GO FOR A MOONLIT SWIM IN A HEATED LIDO
Hampton | ££

london date ideas

They’ll supply the drinks and glow-sticks.

90. GO TO LONDON ZOO. DECIDE WHY THE ANIMALS ARE IN PRISON.
Regents Park | £££

london date ideas

Those zebras are wearing comedy burglar outfits. 

91. HIRE YOUR OWN BOAT FOR THE DAY
Paddington | £££

Go Boat

And speak like pirates all day. 

92. GO TO ELTHAM PALACE, PRETEND TO BE ROYALTY
Greenwich | £

london date ideas

Bring a picnic to have on the stunningly well-manicured lawn.

93. GO FOR BRUNCH
Across London | ££

london date restaurants

Because if the date doesn’t go well, at least you’ve had brunch.

94. DRESS UP IN RIDICULOUSLY FANCY OUTFITS
Covent Garden | £

royal opera house date night

And book £9 tickets to see the Royal Ballet.

95. PIT YOUR WITS AGAINST AN ESCAPE ROOM
Across London | ££

Modern Fables London escape rooms

If you can survive an hour of high-intensity puzzling while locked in a room together, it probably bodes well. 

96. WANDER THROUGH A SPITALFIELDS HOUSE TRAPPED IN TIME
Spitalfields | £

dennis severs house

The candlelit evening tours are silent – so you can save all your best jokes for dinner at Brat afterwards.

97. GO (WILD) LIFE DRAWING
Across London

wild life drawing fun date

Invent pet names for each other. And the models.

98. RUN AWAY FOR THE DAY
Not London | ££

These lovely places are all reachable in 2 hours, but we’ve included some hotel suggestions if you wanted to stay…

99. TAKE A DAY TRIP TO A VINEYARD NEAR LONDON

Tillingham Winery

Resist the urge to sing I Heard It On The Grapevine over and over.

100. OR STAY PUT, AND VISIT LONDON CRU
Fulham | ££

london cru wine tastings

You can literally squeeze grapes with your squeeze.

101. GO DEER-SPOTTING IN RICHMOND PARK
Richmond | Free

richmond park

And take a picnic for this view.

 


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